To say that I have an active imagination is an understatement. Most adults left behind the world of playing pretend for a more "serious" outlook on life... but I am one of the rare ones that chose to keep my imagination active and ready for any given moment. My imagination has it's own air space and zip code. It is bigger than most adults can fathom; I was once locked in a room with (50) 5 years old and I calmed the natives with just a simple improv story told in a made up voice. But for anyone that knows my mother, they wouldn't be that surprised... everything I am is a direct reflection of her.
I like to tell people that I'm a "mover and a shaker" - it means that I will get things done when things need to get done. I learned that from mom. She and I grew to have a reputation of re-arranging the furniture in the house whenever my dad would leave for a long weekend. It was a can-do attitude combined with a need for change. To this day, I still like to rearrange my furniture about once every 6 months. It's funny how it refreshes your mind and puts everyday life into a new perspective.
My best memories from our childhood, is how many songs she would improv in order to get us to do something - or learn something. She was/is always making up songs... my sister and I laugh, because we have both inherited this trait, constantly humming a tune - whether real or made-up in the moment - that comes directly from Mom. (Yes, I'll share some of these to come).
In 2016, my mom asked that I take her to some of my favorite places in Columbus. Places that she had never visited - so we went to the Columbus Museum of Art and Franklin Park Conservatory. We took a picture together to commemorate the experience. (It was one of those pictures that was a bit of a wakeup call... I hadn't realized how big I had gotten. It helped spur the action of getting a trainer). The next year she wanted to go up to Mansfield's Kingwood Center. Afterwards we met up with the rest of the family and we took another picture. (Do you see the difference in both of us?? We both started exercising and eating better). And then this year, we didn't have time to do much besides lunch. But still managed to get a new picture taken. (We both have lost so much and yet it has only made us stronger).
I am often mistaken for being younger than those that are younger than me. I think it's a combination of my youthful looks and the ability to not take myself too seriously - both attributes I can thank my mother for. We both think growing up is overrated. My mom's imagination is still just as active as it was when she was encouraging us to think beyond the obvious. Now that she is retired, she is often creating in her home studio - she paints, draws, sews, does woodworking and has become a re-purpose artist. All things that come naturally to her - spiked from an active imagination and curiosity that forever says, "why not?”.
So as we celebrate our mothers today, I would like to take a particular time out and thank my mother for allowing me to see myself as a creative artist. Her constant encouragement allowed me to imagine the impossible. My personal motto is: "She believed she could, so she did". But really it stems from, having a mother that believed in her daughter so fiercely that the daughter was able to believe in herself.
Thanks Mama, for everything!!
I love learning about myself... especially why & how I tick. So personality tests are fun!! I don't always agree with them, but this is like a Myers-Briggs test with an added kick. It's called 16 Personalities and it's a lot more detailed!!
So, just for fun, I wanted to share my results with you!!
ENFJ - T
They say that my role is that of a Diplomat; and my strategy is Social Engagement. I would definitely agree with the Social Engagement assessment. But what do you think of the Diplomat part?
Let's go back tot he ENFJ-T and look at the breakdown of it all:
These are the ones that never seem to change. They are the same as they were when I first took the test back in college. However, the added level is that of "Identity" - so let's take a look:
Is it weird that I feel more confident after reading all of this?! It's almost like a confirmation of, "Oh, yes, this IS who I am!!" And I do not feel the need to make excuses anymore... it is who I am and how I tick. (Maybe this is because the big 4-0 is in less than 27 days).
You're turn!! I'm curious to see who you are too - post your results in the comments please!!
This blog is mainly going to feature my adventures around Columbus and Central Ohio. But yes, I'll still show off my awesome clients too.